LGBTQ+ Friendly Therapist & Affirming Therapy Services
Specialized Telehealth Support for LGBTQ+ Adults in Oregon and Washington
At Solace in Self Therapy, I provide specialized telehealth therapy services for LGBTQ+ adults seeking affirming, competent mental health support. As an LGBTQ friendly therapist, I create a safe space where your sexual orientation and gender identity are respected, celebrated, and understood as fundamental aspects of who you are.
I offer online therapy services throughout Oregon and Washington, making affirming care from a mental health professional accessible regardless of your location within these states. I understand the unique challenges faced by the LGBTQ community and am committed to providing a supportive environment for your well-being.

What Sets My LGBTQ Affirming Therapy Apart:
Validation of LGBTQ+ Experiences: I recognize and affirm the impact of minority stress on overall mental health
Emotional Safety: Create a safe space where you can express your authentic self with unconditional positive regard
Identity Celebration: Support you in building pride and comfort in your sexual orientation and gender identity
Specialized Knowledge: Understand the unique challenges queer people navigate in day-to-day life
Internalized Stigma Reduction: Help you challenge heteronormative assumptions and negative beliefs
Resilience Building: Support you in developing coping skills for navigating challenges within the LGBTQ community
Community Connection: Provide resources for building supportive relationships and healthy relationships
As a licensed professional, I have received specific training in LGBTQ+ affirming care and remain current with evolving best practices to ensure queer clients receive the most effective support possible. As a competent therapist dedicated to serving the LGBTQIA community, I offer a therapeutic relationship that honors your whole self.
My LGBTQ+ Affirming Approach
LGBTQ+ affirming therapy at Solace in Self Therapy goes beyond basic acceptance. Unlike traditional therapy that may overlook the importance of sexual and gender identity, affirmative therapy creates an environment where queer individuals feel truly understood. Many therapists claim to be LGBTQ friendly, but my approach centers the experiences of the queer community in our therapeutic work.

Therapeutic Modalities for LGBTQ+ Support
I utilize evidence-based therapeutic approaches tailored specifically to address the particular challenges faced by LGBTQ+ individuals and the queer community:
Internal Family Systems (IFS)
As both a marriage and family therapist approach and individual therapy modality, IFS offers a powerful framework for exploring and integrating different aspects of identity. Many therapists find this particularly effective for LGBTQ clients dealing with concerns related to their identity development. This approach helps:
Heal parts of yourself that carry shame or fear related to gender expression and sexual orientation
Address conflicts between different aspects of your identity from teenage years forward
Process complex feelings about coming out or gender dysphoria
Find self-compassion for all parts of yourself, supporting self-discovery
Create greater internal harmony and self-acceptance within the LGBTQ community
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
CBT provides effective tools for addressing the anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, and stress that disproportionately affect LGBTQ+ individuals and the queer community by:
Identifying and challenging negative thought patterns related to sexual and gender identity
Developing coping skills for managing discrimination in day-to-day life
Building techniques for emotional regulation used by affirming therapists
Creating behavioral changes that support overall health and well-being
Reducing avoidance behaviors that limit life experiences for LGBTQ friendly therapy participants
My approach to CBT is client-centered and respects your own experiences as a queer person or non-binary individual.
Solution-Focused Therapy
This practical approach emphasizes strengths, resources, and concrete solutions by:
Identifying what's already working in your life
Setting achievable goals for improved wellbeing
Developing strategies for navigating specific challenges
Building on existing strengths and successes
Creating measurable progress toward your goals
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
ACT helps LGBTQ+ individuals and queer people live according to their values despite societal barriers. As a mental health professional, I use this approach to support the LGBTQ community by:
Accepting thoughts and feelings about sexuality without judgment
Clarifying personal values separate from heteronormative assumptions
Committing to actions that align with your authentic self and sexual orientation
Developing psychological flexibility to navigate challenges in the queer community
Creating a meaningful life aligned with your true identity and supporting overall mental health
Somatic Therapy
Many LGBTQ+ individuals experience disconnection from their bodies due to gender dysphoria, trauma, or societal messages. My somatic approach helps:
Increase awareness of bodily sensations and responses
Develop skills for nervous system regulation
Reconnect with your body as a source of wisdom
Process trauma stored in the body
Build a compassionate relationship with your physical self
Benefits of Working with an LGBTQ+ Affirming Therapist
Research consistently demonstrates that members of the LGBTQ community who receive affirming therapy from LGBTQ friendly therapists experience significantly better mental health outcomes than those who don't. Psychology Today highlights how queer individuals benefit from mental health professionals who understand the unique challenges of sexual orientation and gender expression. As a queer therapist myself who works with LGBTQ clients, I've seen firsthand how affirming therapists can transform the therapeutic experience. My clients report numerous benefits from my specialized approach to therapy:
Improved Mental Health Outcomes
Reduction in anxiety and depression symptoms common among the LGBTQ community
Decreased suicidal ideation and self-harm behaviors that disproportionately affect queer individuals
Enhanced emotional regulation skills through therapy with an LGBTQ friendly therapist
Better management of minority stress reactions in day-to-day life
Greater overall mental health and life satisfaction through affirmative therapy
Increased Resilience
Recognition of existing coping strategies and strengths
Development of self-advocacy skills
Connection with community resources
Skills for setting boundaries with non-affirming people
Tools for navigating challenging social environments
Enhanced Self-Acceptance
Validation of your sexual and gender identity as natural and worthy of celebration
Support in challenging internalized negative messages common in the LGBTQ community
Development of authentic self-expression for queer people of all backgrounds
Processing of grief related to rejection experiences that affect mental health
Cultivation of self-compassion and pride in your identity and sexual orientation
Strengthened Relationship Skills
Exploration of how sexual and gender identity influences relationship patterns
Development of skills for communicating needs and boundaries in healthy relationships
Strategies for navigating complex family dynamics, including with adult children
Support in building chosen family and community connections within the queer community
Healing from relationship injuries related to identity through couples counseling when needed
Specialized Support for Group Therapy and Individual Sessions
In addition to individual therapy, I occasionally offer specialized group therapy options for the LGBTQIA community. Group therapy can provide unique benefits that complement individual work:
Connection with others who share similar experiences in the LGBTQ community
Normalization of challenges related to sexual and gender identity
Peer support that enhances the work done in individual therapy
Opportunity to practice new skills in a supportive social environment
Enhanced sense of belonging within the queer community
Whether through group therapy sessions or individual therapy, I tailor my approach to meet your specific needs as a member of the LGBTQ community. My background as both a marriage and family therapist and individual therapist allows me to offer versatile support across various life transitions and relationship configurations.
Support for Neurodiverse LGBTQ+ Adults
For adults with ADHD, autism, and other neurodivergent conditions, I provide specialized therapy that understands the intersection of neurodiversity with sexual and gender identity:
Psychoeducation about executive function and emotional regulation
Adaptation of therapeutic approaches to match neurodivergent communication styles
Support for energy management and lifestyle adjustments in day-to-day life
Tools for navigating social situations while honoring authentic identity
Recognition of the unique strengths neurodivergent perspectives bring to the LGBTQ community
As one of the few affirming therapists with expertise in both LGBTQ+ issues and neurodiversity, I understand the particular challenges faced by individuals at this intersection. My approach acknowledges that being both neurodiverse and LGBTQ+ often means navigating multiple layers of societal expectations and misunderstandings. I offer counseling that respects your unique neurotype while supporting your journey within the LGBTQIA community.
Comprehensive Support for LGBTQ+ Identity Development
Wherever you are in your identity journey, I provide therapy that respects your unique path:
Safe space for exploration without pressure or judgment from a good therapist who understands
Support through coming out processes at various life transitions (if and when you choose)
Navigation of gender expression and transition (if desired) with sensitivity to gender dysphoria
Processing of experiences related to discrimination or rejection that impact mental health
Building pride and comfort in your authentic identity within the LGBTQ community
As an affirming therapist specializing in LGBTQ+ care, I understand that identity development is not linear and may continue throughout life. Whether you're a teenager just beginning to explore your sexuality or gender identity, or someone in midlife experiencing shifts in how you understand yourself, I provide a good fit for therapy that honors your own experiences and self-discovery process. Many therapists may claim to be "friendly," but affirming therapists like myself offer specific training and approaches designed for LGBTQ clients.
Services for Highly Sensitive LGBTQ+ Adults
Highly Sensitive Persons (HSPs) process sensory information more deeply than others. As a therapist with specialized training in both LGBTQ+ affirming therapy and sensitivity, my support includes:
Validation of sensory and emotional sensitivity as real and legitimate aspects of your experience
Strategies for preventing overwhelm in sensory-rich environments you encounter in day-to-day life
Sustainable self-care practices that honor sensitivity needs while supporting overall well-being
Skills for setting boundaries in relationships and environments to protect your mental health
Reframing sensitivity as a valuable gift rather than a weakness in both personal identity and professional contexts
Many clients find that understanding the intersection between their sensitivity and LGBTQ+ identity helps them create more authentic lives. As both a licensed professional and someone familiar with these experiences, I provide therapy that honors all aspects of who you are. This client-centered approach ensures that we address your concerns related to both sensitivity and sexual orientation or gender identity.

What to Expect from Me as an LGBTQ+ Affirming Therapist
Initial Consultation
Your therapeutic journey begins with a comprehensive consultation to:
Discuss your specific mental health needs and goals related to the LGBTQ community
Determine if my approach aligns with your preferences for therapy
Answer any questions about my therapeutic process and the therapist's experience with LGBTQ clients
Establish a foundation for a trusting therapeutic relationship where I am a good listener and a good fit
Create a preliminary treatment plan tailored to your needs as a queer person or non-binary individual
Finding the right therapist is crucial for effective therapy. Many therapists claim to be "LGBTQ friendly," but as an affirming therapist with specific training in LGBTQIA community issues, I offer online therapy consultations to ensure I'm a good fit for potential clients from Kansas City to Portland and across Oregon and Washington.
Ongoing Therapeutic Support
Throughout your therapeutic journey, you can expect:
Regular sessions via secure telehealth platform
Consistent check-ins regarding progress toward your goals
Adjustments to your treatment plan as needed
Development of practical skills for daily implementation
Deepening exploration of identity and related challenges
Customized Treatment Planning
Following your initial consultation, I develop a personalized treatment plan that:
Addresses your specific concerns related to sexual and gender identity
Incorporates therapeutic modalities suited to your needs for well-being
Sets measurable goals for your therapeutic journey with coping skills development
Creates a flexible framework that evolves as you progress through therapy
Respects your pace and readiness for different aspects of the work
As both a marriage and family therapist and individual therapist, I understand that good therapy looks different for each person. Some clients prefer a structured approach with concrete coping skills development, while others benefit from a more exploratory process. My client-centered approach ensures that therapy meets your unique needs rather than applying a one-size-fits-all model that many therapists might use.
Common Concerns Addressed in My LGBTQ+ Affirming Therapy
As an LGBTQ friendly therapist and mental health professional specializing in LGBTQ affirming approaches, I offer counseling for a wide range of concerns common in the queer community. My therapy practice focuses on providing support for issues related to:
Identity Exploration and Affirmation
Support through coming out processes at different life transitions
Exploration of gender identity, sexual orientation, and gender expression
Navigation of transition-related decisions and gender dysphoria (if relevant)
Integration of intersecting aspects of identity in the LGBTQ community
Building pride and comfort in authentic self-expression for queer individuals
My approach as an affirming therapist acknowledges that identity exploration is often a lifelong journey with different needs at different stages. Whether you're just beginning to question heteronormative assumptions about yourself or you're well-established in your identity but facing new challenges, I provide specialized therapy that respects your unique path.
Relationship and Family Dynamics
Processing family reactions to identity disclosure, including with adult children
Navigating partner relationships as an LGBTQ+ person in the queer community
Building healthy relationships with clear boundaries with non-affirming individuals
Creating chosen family and support networks within the LGBTQ community
Developing skills for intimate relationship success and overall well-being
As a therapist with experience in both individual and couples counseling, I understand the unique relationship challenges faced by LGBTQ clients. Many therapists offer marriage counseling, but my approach specifically addresses the dynamics that arise in relationships affected by heteronormative assumptions and societal pressures. I provide a supportive environment for addressing relationship concerns related to sexual orientation and gender identity..
Mental Health Challenges
Depression and anxiety common among LGBTQ+ individuals and the queer community
Trauma related to discrimination or rejection affecting overall mental health
Minority stress responses and hypervigilance in day-to-day life
Body image concerns, gender dysphoria, and sexuality issues
Substance use issues that disproportionately affect LGBTQ+ people
Support for bipolar disorder and other mental health concerns
Workplace and Social Navigation
Strategies for managing discrimination and microaggressions
Decision-making around disclosure in professional settings
Self-advocacy skills for healthcare and other services
Building confidence in social interactions
Managing the emotional labor of educating others
Enhanced Privacy and Comfort
Attend sessions from the safety and comfort of your own space
Eliminate concerns about being seen entering a therapy office
Create your ideal environment for vulnerability and openness
Reduce anxiety that can accompany in-person appointments
Maintain control over your therapeutic environment
My Online Therapy Advantage for LGBTQ+ Clients
Online therapy and telehealth services offer significant benefits for LGBTQ+ clients seeking affirming care from an LGBTQ friendly therapist:
Secure and Confidential
All telehealth sessions conducted through HIPAA-compliant platforms
Enhanced privacy compared to waiting rooms in traditional offices
Secure electronic documentation and communication
Confidential environment under your control
Professional standards maintained in virtual format
Increased Accessibility
Access specialized LGBTQ+ affirming care regardless of your location in Oregon or Washington
Eliminate transportation barriers and travel time
Fit therapy more easily into your busy schedule
Maintain consistent care even when travel or illness would prevent in-person sessions
Connect with a specialist in LGBTQ+ care who might not be available locally

Is My LGBTQ+ Friendly Therapy Right for You?
As a licensed professional providing affirming therapy, my LGBTQ friendly therapist services may be ideal if you are seeking a mental health professional who truly understands the queer community. I offer counseling specifically designed for:
Individuals who identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, or another sexual or gender minority
People who want a therapist who understands LGBTQ+ experiences without requiring explanation
Those seeking support for mental health concerns within the context of their identity
Individuals needing a safe space to explore aspects of their identity or coming out process
People experiencing challenges related to discrimination, rejection, or minority stress
Those wanting to build coping skills for navigating a world that isn't always affirming
Individuals looking for support from someone who celebrates rather than merely tolerates their identity
Couples seeking marriage counseling or couples counseling from an LGBTQ-informed perspective
Those interested in both individual therapy and occasional group therapy opportunities
My practice focuses on providing affirming therapy that goes beyond what many therapists might offer. With specialized training in LGBTQIA community needs and a deep understanding of the unique challenges faced by queer individuals, I strive to be the right therapist for clients seeking truly affirming care.
Is My LGBTQ+ Friendly Therapy Right for You?
Getting Started with My LGBTQ+ Friendly Therapy Services
Beginning therapy is a significant step that reflects your commitment to growth and well-being. As a dedicated therapist providing support to the LGBTQ community, I strive to make this process straightforward and welcoming:
Reach Out: Contact me to express your interest in my LGBTQ+ affirming therapy services.
Initial Consultation: Schedule an online therapy consultation to discuss your mental health needs and goals.
Paperwork Completion: Complete necessary intake forms electronically before your first session.
First Session: Begin your therapeutic journey with a focus on building rapport and understanding your priorities as a queer person.
Ongoing Support: Engage in regular online therapy sessions tailored to your unique needs related to sexual orientation and gender identity.
Potential Group Therapy: Explore whether occasional group therapy sessions might complement your individual work.
I provide online therapy services throughout Oregon and Washington, making affirming therapy accessible for queer individuals regardless of your location within these states. Whether you're in Portland, Seattle, or anywhere in between, my telehealth services ensure that distance is not a barrier to receiving quality mental health care from affirming therapists with expertise in LGBTQIA community needs.
As a licensed professional committed to providing a supportive environment for all LGBTQ clients, I look forward to the opportunity to support your journey toward greater well-being and authentic self-expression.
Contact Me to Learn More About My LGBTQ+ Friendly Therapy Services
Ready to take the next step in your healing journey? As one of the few affirming therapists specializing in both LGBTQ+ care and neurodiversity, I'm committed to providing support for your unique needs. Contact Solace in Self Therapy today to learn more about my affirming therapy services and schedule your initial consultation.
I offer online therapy throughout Oregon and Washington state, including marriage counseling and couples counseling for the LGBTQ community. Whether you're seeking support for anxiety, depression, gender dysphoria, relationship challenges, or other concerns related to your identity and well-being, I am here to provide competent, compassionate care.
My goal as a therapist is to create a therapeutic relationship where you feel truly seen, heard, and supported in all aspects of who you are. Through evidence-based therapy approaches tailored to your specific needs within the LGBTQIA community, we'll work together to help you navigate life's challenges and build a more authentic, fulfilling life.
Frequently Asked Questions About LGBTQ+ Affirming Therapy
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My LGBTQ+ affirming therapy goes beyond basic acceptance to actively validate and support your sexual orientation and gender identity as a natural, healthy variation of human experience. While many therapists may call themselves "LGBTQ friendly therapists," as a mental health professional with specific training in LGBTQIA community issues and affirmative therapy approaches, I understand the impact of minority stress and integrate this knowledge throughout the therapeutic process. Affirming therapy creates a supportive environment where queer clients receive unconditional positive regard and don't have to educate their therapist about basic LGBTQ+ concepts.
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Affirming therapists like myself have undergone specialized training specifically in LGBTQ+ mental health concerns, understand the impacts of heteronormative assumptions, and actively work to create therapeutic spaces free from the microaggressions that many LGBTQ clients experience with therapists who are merely "friendly." While many therapists might claim to work with LGBTQ clients, truly affirming therapists understand the particular challenges of navigating minority stress and the impact this has on overall mental health and well-being.
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Yes, I occasionally facilitate group therapy sessions for members of the LGBTQ community. Group therapy can provide unique benefits that complement individual therapy, including connection with others who share similar experiences, normalization of challenges, and opportunities to practice new skills in a supportive social environment. If you're interested in group therapy opportunities, we can discuss whether this might be beneficial as part of your treatment plan during our consultation.
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Absolutely. As a therapist with training in both individual and relationship dynamics, I offer couples counseling and marriage counseling specifically tailored to LGBTQ relationships. Many queer people find that working with a therapist who understands the unique aspects of LGBTQ relationships—whether they're navigating coming out, transition, non-traditional relationship structures, or simply the day-to-day challenges that all couples face—provides a more effective therapeutic experience than working with therapists who primarily serve heterosexual couples.
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Online therapy sessions are conducted through a secure, HIPAA-compliant video platform. As an LGBTQ friendly therapist, I understand that creating a safe space is crucial for queer individuals navigating day-to-day life with minority stress. You'll need a private space, internet connection, and a device with a camera and microphone. I'll provide detailed instructions for accessing the platform before your first appointment. Many clients in the LGBTQ community find that online therapy offers greater flexibility and comfort than traditional in-person sessions with mental health professionals who may not understand their unique challenges.
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Research consistently shows that online therapy can be equally effective as in-person therapy for most mental health concerns. For many LGBTQ+ individuals and queer people, online therapy offers advantages by providing access to specialized LGBTQ friendly therapists and allowing you to attend sessions from the comfort and safety of your own space. This is particularly beneficial for gender nonconforming individuals and those in the LGBTQ community who may feel anxious in traditional therapy settings. Online therapy also expands your options for finding a good therapist with the specific training needed to support your unique concerns related to sexual and gender identity.
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Absolutely. As an LGBTQ friendly therapist, I provide a safe, non-judgmental space for sexual and gender identity exploration without pressure or expectations. This supportive environment is crucial for queer individuals in the process of self-discovery. I understand that questioning is a valid and important part of many people's journeys in the LGBTQ community. I offer specialized therapy approaches that honor where you are in your process of understanding your identity and sexuality. Many therapists may claim to support LGBTQ clients, but affirming therapists like myself have the specific training needed to effectively guide this exploration.
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I understand that coming out is a personal process that looks different for everyone. Therapy can provide a safe space to explore your identity and make decisions about disclosure that feel right for your unique situation, without pressure to come out before you're ready. As a therapist who specializes in supporting the LGBTQ community through various life transitions, I recognize that selective disclosure is often a necessary part of navigating a world that isn't always accepting. Online therapy provides additional privacy that many clients appreciate during this sensitive time.
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The duration of therapy varies widely depending on your specific goals, the complexity of your concerns related to gender identity and sexual orientation, and your preferred pace of work. Some LGBTQ clients benefit from brief, solution-focused therapy over a few months to address specific life transitions, while others engage in deeper exploratory work with me as their LGBTQ friendly therapist over a longer period. Many clients in the queer community find that regular therapy supports their overall mental health through different life stages. We'll discuss timeline expectations during your consultation to ensure a good fit.
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I can provide documentation for out-of-network benefits reimbursement. Many therapists in the field offer similar arrangements for mental health services. Please contact me to discuss options for making therapy accessible to you. Unlike some mental health professionals who may be in-network with specific plans, I work with clients to maximize their insurance benefits while providing specialized care for the LGBTQ community.
